Healing From Life's Dysfunctions And Traumas
Hope in God
So, yesterday after weeks of intense topics in divorce care class we were tackling SINGLE LIVING. I loved it, there was ease, my heart didn’t race, but Forgiveness is my favourite topic because it’s what I struggled with the most and God used the hardest ways for me to embrace it. Ogopa Mungu nani! Let’s … Read more
I wouldn’t jump for a YES or a NO but ask which reconciliation is top-priority. Last year, at the Global School Of Missions – The Farm, I learnt that misplaced spiritual position results in misplaced relationships. At the time, I battled with that thought because shifting blame is always safer or rather being a victim … Read more
Few months ago a reader challenged me to write this from a christian perspective. According to him I have written so much on separation/divorce and intimate partner violence a lot that it seems I am against forgiveness and reconciliation. So I write in obedience, I pray flesh doesn’t own the ink. For them that live … Read more
Am also not ready for a conversation around this subject. But I found myself talking about it some months ago at the Holistic Healing Well event, yet again it scares me. It mostly scares victims of this kind of rape to share of it because marital and rape can’t marry in the eyes of the … Read more
I am a first born daughter and sometimes I don’t like it. No, a lot of times I don’t. I stopped priding myself with ooh am a second parent to my siblings etc. nonsense, ok my apologies it’s a good thing. Let’s talk about shame. The shame of getting a child out of wedlock as … Read more